Heartbroken mum says sister, 20, took her own life after 'nobody listened'

A hospital employee who spoken of her heartbreak on the lack of her 20-year-old sister, who dedicated suicide after "no person listened to her".

Sarah Wooden, 29, had her entire world come crashing down after her sibling Chelsea, from Rubery, took her personal life final 12 months.

The mum-of-three, from Falcon Lodge, Sutton Coldfield, mentioned Chelsea had been identified with Emotionally Unstable Persona Dysfunction (EUPD) and suffered from anxiousness and melancholy.

However she claims her sister was "disregarded" when she tried to get assist, Birmingham Dwell experiences.

Following Chelsea's loss of life, Sarah, a housekeeper at Good Hope Hospital, began going to the health club as a approach of channelling her grief.

Now, she is about to run the Nice Birmingham Run 10k in Might to assist elevate cash for psychological well being charity Thoughts.

The 28-year-old mentioned: “I’d by no means run earlier than however I wished to do one thing in Chelsea’s reminiscence. My sister didn’t wish to die.

"She wished to dwell her life however she didn’t get any assist. I wish to run for Thoughts to allow them to have the funding they should assist different younger individuals struggling psychological well being points.”

Sarah’s painful recollections of the build-up to her sister’s loss of life in February final 12 months acted as a catalyst to spur her on together with her coaching.

She mentioned she used her time within the health club to channel her grief and her sense of accountability for what occurred into one thing extra optimistic.

She mentioned: “I blamed myself afterwards and that was actually onerous to cope with. I began going to the health club on the best way house from work and it turned my outlet.

"Chelsea suffered Emotionally Unstable Persona Dysfunction (EUPD) and had been identified with anxiousness and melancholy.

"No person listened to her or believed her, and she or he was consistently disregarded by the individuals who have been meant to assist. She was the bravest lady I do know.

"She labored as a carer and had a large coronary heart. She was an incredible aunty to my kids – she was all the time so affected person with them.”

Sarah continued: “I keep in mind she had the loveliest lengthy black hair that went all the best way down her again. I miss sitting together with her and plaiting it.

"Fortunately I've numerous pretty recollections however I miss laughing together with her and I miss her good coronary heart. I gained’t let her reminiscence be forgotten. That’s why I wished to do the run.”

The half marathon and 10K – which occur on the identical day – are open to runners of all ages and talents, lots of whom are elevating funds for causes near their coronary heart, or as a health objective.

The 10K route begins within the metropolis centre and takes runners previous Bullring and out alongside Pershore Highway to Cannon Hill Park, which marks the half-way level. Runners then loop round world-famous Edgbaston Cricket Floor and previous Calthorpe Park.

There's then a remaining part via Digbeth earlier than the grandstand metropolis centre end. Sarah’s 10K coaching has included common weight classes, working with a private coach and increase her operating distances over latest months.

And her recommendation for fellow first-timers? “If you happen to’re like me and doing this for the primary time I'd say consider in your self,” she mentioned. “Be sure to put the coaching in and set your self a goal, however don’t quit on your self.

“I’ve not set myself a time restrict, it's going to take me so long as it takes me. However even when I've to stroll a part of the best way, I do know I'll make it to the end line as a result of my recollections of Chelsea will maintain me going.”

There’s a 20 per cent low cost, routinely utilized at checkout, for the 10k distance, legitimate till Friday, April 29 when entries shut. The Nice Birmingham Run takes place on Sunday, Might 1. For extra info or to enter, go to GreatRun.org.

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