Parents devastation as grave for stillborn baby girl 'thrown in skip' by council

The grieving mother and father of a stillborn child woman have been left horrified after a memorial arrange at her graveside was ‘thrown in a skip’ by council staff.

Heartbroken Keelie Walker and Ryan Stokes misplaced their daughter, Valencia, in June 2021.

They imagine she handed away after Keelie examined constructive for coronavirus, with the couple burying their baby in Mill Lane Cemetery in Cheadle.

The pair describe the plot as ‘our lovely little place’ that they often go to to assist ease their unimaginable struggling.

With the assistance of their different kids, Keelie and Ryan created a small show for his or her child woman, after cemetery staff stated they have been allowed to make use of the backyard area as long as it solely prolonged one foot away from the plot.

Now, after different shows have been cleared by Stockport Council final 12 months, Ryan says his daughter’s spot has been hit — and employees have ‘thrown’ his possessions ‘in a skip’.

“It’s disgusting,” the heartbroken dad, 35, informed Manchester Night Information. “I used to be informed I [could] go a foot out. She has solely been there for six months.

“I'm simply over a foot out [from my plot] they usually have taken the lot out and thrown it in a skip.”

Ryan Stokes and Keelie Walker, both 35, next to the grave of their stillborn daughter Valencia.
Ryan Stokes and Keelie Walker, each 35, subsequent to the grave of their stillborn daughter Valencia. (Picture: Ryan Stokes)

The dad even went as far as to say he desires to see Valencia's grave exhumed.

He defined: "I wish to have my child moved. I would like her dug up."

Mill Lane has been the location of offended clashes between bereaved households, police, and enforcement officers when clearances befell final December.

Ryan says he and Keelie, additionally 35, knew concerning the ongoing points within the cemetery - however they believed their plot wouldn't be affected for 2 causes.

One was that they have been throughout the ‘one-foot’ they may lengthen into, and the opposite is that Valencia is buried within the infants and cremations part.

Nonetheless, with their surprising discovery this morning (March 1), the Cheadle Hulme couple say their ache has come to the fore once more.

“That was our lovely little place,” Ryan continued. “We take our youngsters to see their little sister. Our lives have by no means been the identical.

“My accomplice has had postnatal despair. It nonetheless feels as recent as something. It has put our nervousness by the roof.”

In response to the transfer, Stockport Council stated the 'lawned' nature of the cemetery was made 'clear' in 'a welcome pack' issued to each grave proprietor.

An announcement added: "The world the place this burial has taken place is the child memorial backyard. It was developed along side Stockport SANDS. It was all the time supposed to be saved as a lawned design and this was agreed with Stockport SANDS. Everybody is shipped a welcome pack making this clear.

"We perceive that that is a particularly delicate situation and as such, we've labored arduous with all of the households affected and given them discover to take away their objects. On this case, we wrote to the grave proprietor on December 3, 2021 and February 1, 2022 asking that the backyard is eliminated.

"This grave is the one one on this space the place a small backyard has been set out and we've by no means given permission for this and there's additionally no settlement to depart tributes exterior of the boundary. The work was carried out to make sure that the lawned look of the cemetery will be maintained in keeping with the needs of nearly all of grave homeowners."

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